Wednesday, 27 March 2024

Linda-maree Conyard

This week, we are probing into the profound value of anchoring yourself in the present moment and regulating your nervous system. Practising this builds stability within you, and you have the potential to experience calm consciousness.

Grounding practices are significant in maintaining emotional equilibrium and addressing the consequences of disconnection from the present moment.

In this edition of Trauma Bytes, we'll explore:

  • ​The Importance of Grounding;
  • The Consequences of Disconnection from Grounding; and
  • Benefits of Consistent Grounding Practices.

All of the offerings within this Trauma Byte assumes that you are in a safe place. If you're not safe, then definitely take whatever action you need to.

May you feel your feet on the ground and be present in your body in this moment.

1. The Importance of Grounding.
Grounding encompasses practices that anchor us in the present moment, helping regulate the nervous system and alleviate stress and anxiety.

It involves techniques such as deep breathing, mindful movement, and connecting with the senses to bring awareness to the here and now, fostering a sense of being here and now, which may bring a sense of calming or deescalating.

By regularly engaging with grounding practices, we cultivate a sense of safety and security within ourselves, enabling us to respond to life's ups and downs with greater presence and clarity.


  • ​Feeling Present and Engaged
  • Balanced Emotions & Clear Thinking
  • Relaxed Body & Ease of Movement
  • Connection with Surroundings & Others
  • Steady Breath & Calm Nervous System

Not Grounded

  • ​Feeling Distracted or Disconnected
  • Overwhelmed by Stress or Anxiety
  • Tension or Restlessness in the Body
  • Feeling Isolated or Detached
  • Shallow Breathing & Heightened Alertness

2. The Consequences of Disconnection from Grounding
Disconnection from grounding practices can lead to heightened states of anxiety, stress, and emotional dysregulation. Especially if you are already working with your trauma responses.

Without the anchor of the present moment, we may find ourselves easily overwhelmed by external stimuli or caught in cycles of rumination and worry.

This disconnection can manifest in physical symptoms such as tension headaches, digestive issues, and sleep disturbances, further exacerbating our sense of unease and imbalance.

Moreover, when we are not grounded, we may struggle to make clear decisions, communicate effectively, or maintain healthy boundaries in relationships, leading to increased interpersonal conflicts and emotional volatility. It can be challenging to get off this hamster wheel when we are on it. Do your best to remember to use your grounding practices as much as you can.

3. The Benefits of Consistent Grounding Practices
Consistently using grounding practices offers a multitude of benefits, such as enhancing overall well-being and stability, decreasing anxiety, relieving depression, and reducing the churning in a mind full of continuous thoughts.

Regular grounding practices offer the potential to live a more peaceful life. Having a calmer nervous system allows us to navigate life's challenges with greater ease and clarity.

Grounding also cultivates a deeper connection with ourselves and the world around us, opening up the space for a sense of belonging and interconnectedness. Additionally, when we are grounded, we are better able to access our intuition, creativity, and problem-solving skills, enabling us to approach our challenges with creativity and adaptability.

Practices for Increasing our sense of Grounding

  • Connecting to Your Breath - Engage in deep breathing exercises to regulate the nervous system and bring awareness to the present moment. Practice diaphragmatic breathing, where you inhale deeply through your nose, allowing your abdomen to expand, and exhale slowly through your mouth, releasing tension and promoting relaxation. Do this slowly to a count of 4 on the in breath and a count of 8 on the out breath. Really feel the tension leave as you focus on the long out breath. To do this exercise you have to slow your breathing, which is the point of this. A slow breath means safety and a fast breath means you are under threat.
  • Mindful Movement - Incorporate mindful movement practices such as yoga, tai chi, or qigong into your daily routine to connect with the body and ground yourself in the present. Focus on the sensation of movement, breath, and the connection between mind and body.
  • Sensory Awareness - Utilise sensory grounding techniques to anchor yourself in the present moment. Slowly and consciously bring your attention to the sights, sounds, smells, tastes, and textures around you, allowing yourself to fully engage with your environment. If you like you could use grounding objects such as a stress ball or a smooth stone to provide tactile stimulation and promote relaxation.
  • Nature Connection - Ever wonder what makes us feel good when we are in nature? We are made of the same five elements that nature is made of: space, air, water, fire and earth. When we spend time in nature, immersing ourselves in the sights, sounds, and sensations of the natural world, we are resonating and calibrating ourselves with Mother Nature. Take a walk in the park, sit by a tree, or sit on the ground and feel the connection. Connect with the earth beneath your feet, feel the immense support available to you and open yourself to the grounding energy she provides.​ Quick personal share: whenever I am working with clients, I usually have a view of trees, and I notice myself resonating with them throughout the session. I don't do this deliberately; it just happens, and I notice it. Do you notice anything like this happening to you?
  • Grounding Visualisation - Practising grounding visualisations can bring a sense of stability and security within yourself. You may like to imagine roots extending from the soles of your feet deep into the earth and notice how they are anchoring you firmly in place. See if you can feel the steadiness provided to you when you feel what you are imagining. Visualise your stress and negativity (or whatever you are working with) wherever they are around you or in you, and notice what happens to them when you continue to focus on building your stability through your visualisation.

When you embrace grounding as a way of being, you build strength in being in the present moment, allowing a deep sense of connection and well-being. Through consistent practice and mindful awareness, may you embody the transformative power of grounding, creating a life filled with balance, presence, and vitality.

Feel free to adapt and integrate these practices into your day, knowing that each mindful effort you put in benefits you and those around you.

I love hearing from you and receiving your updates, so please keep them coming.

May you be well, may you be happy, and may you have inner peace.

Linda ♡

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