Articles/Trauma Bytes/The Courage to Listen Within

Tuesday, 7 October 2025

Linda Maree Conyard(c)

There's a moment I often witness in my work with clients that never fails to move me. It's that quiet, powerful instant when someone reconnects with their own inner knowing, when they turn away from the cacophony of external voices and rediscover the clarity that has been waiting patiently within them all along.

In those moments, something profound shifts. Their shoulders soften. Their breath deepens. And often, there are tears, not of sadness, but of recognition. Of coming home to themselves.

The Challenge of Our Time
We live in what might be the noisiest era humanity has ever experienced. Our days are filled with notifications, headlines, and algorithms designed to capture our attention. Social media feeds us an endless stream of comparison and "should's". Experts and influencers offer contradicting advice on everything from what to eat for breakfast to how to structure our life's purpose.

It's no wonder so many of us feel disconnected from our own inner guidance system. The external noise has grown so loud that it drowns out the subtle voice of our intuition, that quiet, steady knowing that has been guiding living beings since long before smartphones and social media.

Yet this inner compass remains our most reliable navigator, especially when it comes to creating lives that are truly aligned with our values, our wellbeing, and the health of our planet.

The Wisdom That Never Left
What I find beautiful about inner wisdom is that it never actually disappears—it simply gets buried beneath layers of conditioning, expectation, and digital distraction. It's always there, like an underground spring, waiting for us to clear away the debris and drink from its clarity once again.

I see this truth reflected so powerfully in our relationship with the natural world. Many of us have forgotten how to listen to the rhythms of nature, how to read the language of clouds and soil and seasons. Yet that ancient knowledge hasn't vanished; it lives in our cells, in our ancestral memory. It simply needs our attention to reawaken.

The same is true of our inner knowing. The wisdom that guides us toward regenerative choices, choices that nourish rather than deplete, that create rather than consume, hasn't disappeared. It's just waiting beneath the noise for us to remember how to listen.

Signs You're Disconnected from Inner Guidance
How do we know when we've lost touch with our inner compass? Here are some signs I often observe:

ㅤ● Chronic indecision or constantly seeking others' opinions before making choices or seeking validation from others;
ㅤ● Feeling exhausted by options or overwhelmed by information or frozen in uncertainty;
ㅤ● Making choices that look good on paper but feel wrong in your body (if you can feel your body);
ㅤ● Sensing a disconnect between your daily actions and your deeper values (if you have awareness of what your top values are);
ㅤ● Experiencing physical symptoms of stress when facing decisions.

If these resonate with you, please know you're not alone. Our entire culture has been designed to keep us looking outward for answers rather than trusting what we know within (the Jellyfish🙂).

Practices for Reconnection
The good news is that reconnecting with our inner wisdom is simple, not always easy, but fundamentally simple. Here are some practices that have helped countless individuals restore this vital relationship:
1. Create pockets of silence. — Even five minutes of intentional quiet can begin to shift your relationship with noise. Try sitting in silence before checking your phone in the morning. Notice what arises when you're not immediately filling the space with input.

2. Practice body awareness. — Our bodies often know the truth before our minds catch up. When facing a decision, notice: Does this option create tension or expansion in your body? Where do you feel your "yes" and where do you feel your "no"?

3. Slow down your decisions. — Unless truly urgent, give important choices the gift of time. Sleep on decisions when possible. Notice what clarity emerges when you're not rushing.

4. Reconnect with natural rhythms. — Spend time observing the unhurried pace of natural processes. Watch a plant growing toward light. Notice how nature never rushes yet accomplishes everything.

5. Create a wisdom dialogue. — Try this simple journaling practice: Write down a question you're holding. Then, with your non-dominant hand, write the response that comes from your deeper wisdom. This physical shift can help bypass your analytical mind.

A Simple Daily Practice
If you're seeking a single practice to begin with, here's one that takes just three minutes but can profoundly shift your relationship with inner wisdom:

ㅤ1. The Three-Minute Centering Practice
ㅤ2. Find a comfortable position and close your eyes or soften your gaze.
ㅤ3. Place one hand on your heart and one on your belly.
ㅤ4. Take three slow, deep breaths, allowing your attention to follow the breath.
ㅤ5. Ask silently: "What do I need to know today?" or "What matters most right now?"
ㅤ6. Don't search for the answer—simply create space for it to arise.
ㅤ7. Notice what comes, whether as words, images, sensations, or simply a feeling.

Before opening your eyes, thank this inner wisdom for its guidance.

What makes this practice powerful isn't its simplicity but its consistency. When practiced daily, it creates a regular channel of communication with your inner wisdom, making it easier to access this guidance even amid the noise of everyday life.

The Regenerative Connection
There's something profoundly regenerative about reclaiming our relationship with inner wisdom. When we make choices from this centred place, they naturally tend toward greater harmony, with our true needs, with our communities, and with the living world around us.

I've noticed that people who are deeply connected to their inner guidance systems tend to consume less, waste less, and find satisfaction in simpler living. Not because they're following external rules about sustainability, but because their choices naturally align with what genuinely nourishes them and the world they love.

This is why inner listening isn't just a personal wellbeing practice; it's a radical act with ripple effects that extend far beyond ourselves. Each time we choose to pause, to listen within (the whale) rather than reach for external validation or distraction (the jellyfish), we're participating in a quiet revolution of consciousness that may be essential for creating the regenerative future we all long for.

I'd love to hear your thoughts and experiences:
If nature could speak directly to you about your current life situation, what message do you sense it might have for you?

You are welcome to share your thoughts by sending me an email at linda@lindaconyard.com.

​May you be well, may you be happy, may you have inner peace,

Linda ♡

If you try out any offered practices, I’d love to hear how you found them and what you now understand that you didn’t before. I love, love, love hearing from you guys.

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